So I have spent the last 10 months or so in a happy, little bubble, feeling like everything was working out for me. I barely opened up this blog as I was spending my time with the boy. The amazing, cool, and caring boy. Now if you have been following this blog at all, you would know that I was well aware of what I was after in a relationship. I spent A LONG TIME figuring out what I did what and I wasn’t really going to settle for anything less than this.
We spent the weekends exploring, swimming, camping, watching movies, or just spending independent time together. By this, I mean I read my book and he played Battlefield on Xbox. Jeez it was nice. It was more than nice. It was exactly what I was after. He would cook me breakfast and make me a toasted sandwich for lunch.
During this time, he booked his trip to Europe with his best friend. During this time I began to really trust him and was settling with the idea that he would be gone for two months.
During this time I fell in love with him.
And during this last week I have had my heart broken.
I had trusted this boy with everything. After taking it slow and letting him in, he had decided that he had this’ feeling’ that wouldn’t go away. That even though this was exactly what is was after in a relationship he couldn’t get rid of this idea that when they started planning Europe over 6 years ago that he was suppose to be single.
Now I know that every girl reading this is thinking, ‘what a dick move!’ And you are right. It is. But the other part of this is that I understand. I have travelled while having someone at home and it is hard. Also once he gets an image in his head on how something is suppose to be it is hard to change his mind. I know this boy pretty well and I know that he isn’t doing this because he wants to sleep his way around Europe. He is doing this because he is too logical to not know that it would be super hard. For both of us.
Today was the day that we said goodbye. He came over before he left for the airport to say goodbye. We hugged. He said he would miss me. And he will see me in a few months. I corrected him and said a couple of months because I am a stickler for timeframes.
So now I go back to being on my own. Looking after myself. And hoping one day I won’t wake up feeling like I will cry. Because I am already sick of ruining my make-up. But until that day, I think I will steer clear of mascara.